Cookies help us deliver our Services. Apparently, I'm cold and "too pretty and perfect" to be approachable. I won't like her,' (paraphrasing) but then I got to know you and you're actually pretty cool. I once got yelled at by a complete stranger (who was drunk) for being taller and more attractive than him. Being too nosy, drunk junk and Reddit or not. [–]Jasboh 30Answer Link2 points3 points4 points 9 years ago (0 children). you look like shit in photos but women on okc throw themselves on you? It's easy to cheat, and everyone forgives you anyway. Im more of a nerd with a cat and i sit at home doing computer stuff and music stuff by myself and people are shocked to find this out because they just naturally think im actually cool, based on my looks which is no way to judge a man. People want everything to see you fall into disastrous ruin. [–]huntwhales 5 points6 points7 points 9 years ago (0 children). Older people and people in authority want to adopt you. And if I'm honest it is also very, very easy to manipulate people though again: I don't really do that. I came down the stairs and she went "OH MY GOD" and kept saying how pretty I was for about 2 hours straight. [–]your_MOTHERS_boner 4 points5 points6 points 9 years ago (2 children). Social situations just flow. I think I might be a slight butter-face now. you said you not white nor black but rather exotic. The pros are that I get a lot of attention and everyone (guys) are always willing to help me out with pretty much anything for free (which I don't ask for, they just offer or do it without me knowing). Female here. Here's what frustrates people about being beautiful: 1. Ain't nothing wrong with initiating. You have to also have a bit more of a magnetic personality, or welcoming demeanor to be a "chick magnet", as a guy. The only exception was a seasonal group: the people coming from the film festival that happened across the street once a year, usually the aforementioned middle aged women who also considered themselves to be "very refined". [–]cp5184 19 points20 points21 points 9 years ago (2 children). [–]discobanditt 1 point2 points3 points 9 years ago (1 child). I'm not white, so the exotic nature really turns them on. At least, not often enough. I sometimes feel like a psychopath, because some people are so easy to bullshit. I have pretty severe social anxiety, largely from being harassed about my weight most of my childhood and teenage years by peers, family, strangers, etc. My ex recently got a new girlfriend and my mom showed a co-worker the picture of his new girlfriend. It's statistics. Then by the same sex too, cause your popularity is set by the opposite one anyway. [–]sub_rosa 4 points5 points6 points 9 years ago (2 children), [–]dazheb 2 points3 points4 points 9 years ago (1 child), [–]reddell 2 points3 points4 points 9 years ago (0 children). more >>, Any post asking for advice should be generic and not specific to your situation alone. But if you are really beautiful, you simply don't have to care too much. We tend to link good looks to health, meaning that illnesses are … Crude comments that I guess are supposed to be complimentary when they aren't. It's hard to commit and I honestly saw no point in it. Don't. I once wrote out an entire statistical proof for a simpler method of calculating average means for this girl I was sleeping with, and she just looked at me with a "You poor thing.." face and played with my hair. 5. I'm not particularly attractive, maybe just above average if I'm lucky, but I'm exceptionally good at making people believe anything I say. Awesome. I get told I'm good looking all the time but I think it has alot to do with how you carry yourself. To sum up, beauty is a great tool. Let them feel they are the dominant ones in the group and that you appreciate their advice etc. I'm pretty sure there's a lot more to life than being really, really, ridiculously good looking. Part of being pretty is smelling nice, so put on deodorant and/or antiperspirant after you shower each day. I'll probably get downvotes for this, but like it or not, life is a ton easier being good-looking. I've never been in a relationship. My girlfriend is always scared that she's being too clingy or needy but in fact, I love all the attention I get from her. I have been told I look like Cindy Crawford, Jessica Simpson, Kate Winslet, and a whole bunch of other really random celebs that don't look much like each other. It helps with career advancement in many professions (not all, mind … I like the brunette-serious eyebrows and glasses kind of look." [–][deleted] 42 points43 points44 points 9 years ago (1 child). Press question mark to learn the rest of the keyboard shortcuts Being good-looking isn't all of it. so I have to be all "Eh, just put it anywhere" all awkwardly lol. It is hard to get close to someone if you keep everything on the surface. Straight female, but just want to say - that's classic beauty that will last, not 'hotness'. Look up "Thank God I'm Pretty" by Emilie Autumn. You give off vibes that you're a stuck up bitch even when you're probably the most down to earth person. And if I am feeling really immature, or hurt, or somehow my pride has been trampled on because I have tried so hard to earn your respect and you haven't given me the slightest chance? Girls they like completely forget about them once they meet me; I've had friends treat me like shit in front of their girlfriends, as well as neglect to introduce me for fear of attracting them. (I was told this by a male friend later in college. On top of it, I was a smarty pants (borderline obnoxiously so) and was moved up a grade in primary school. Use of this site constitutes acceptance of our User Agreement and Privacy Policy. People tend to give you the benefit of the doubt. i have two very attractive friends. I got my teeth done at an early age so I always have to put up with people looking at my teeth when I'm talking instead of my eyes or instead of listening to me which can get annoying. Some of us get denied when initiating AND never initiated on. Women are LESS friendly. If you're not, how could you know all of the pros and cons? [–][deleted] 7 points8 points9 points 9 years ago (10 children). Lucid dreamers of reddit, how did you learn about lucid dreaming, are there any tips you'd advise people that want to start, and are they actually as realistic as described? Cons: cat calls, being bothered by drunk men in bars. However it does take confidence and empathy as well- but the face definitely opens the door and I know this. This sounds really self centered but I'm just repeating my experiences. Bouncing Christ, no wonder you don't get hit on. Edit: On the other end, I was on OkCupid for a while, and I read all of their research on the research page while crafting my profile. IRL friends of social media “influencers”: what is it like? Tap to … I can take a good picture, but not a good candid picture. on the other side of things, the male friend got a scholarship to an american university, and nobody has trouble believing him. I suppose that's why botox and cosmetic surgery is so popular, it helps ugly people feel beautiful and beautiful people feel like they aren't ugly. Early-bloomer tomboy who thought the world was a rip-off for females because it seemed like as a girl, you had to sell your soul to be something that boys liked, and that being yourself just wouldn't cut it. In many interactions, day to day, there isn't time for being anything more than shallow. But now she sees things as they are. [–]HatHatHatHat 1 point2 points3 points 9 years ago* (1 child). You don't know how to deal with things. The rumors that are started, especially when you look like a sex-bunny, are terrible. Calm down. When I've gone looking for new makeup (foundation) and am testing it, several of the store clerks have gone to apply it then said "You don't actually have any flaws for me to cover up!" Still want to do everything to her, [–]Changey 1160Answer Link115 points116 points117 points 9 years ago (11 children). As an attractive man I don't really feel the need to distinguish. The Dating Nerd is a shadowy figure whose whereabouts and identifying details remain unknown. He said so himself. If I go out with friends, and I don't feel like talking to men, I will actually do the opposite of what common sense would say to do---I dress really sexy and the men stay away. That's about it. And despite having the education, work experience, and letters of recommendation from influential people, dorky engineers in ill-fitting Polo shirts can not comprehend that she knows how to do her job because she is young and gorgeous. [–]robreddity 34 points35 points36 points 9 years ago (1 child). What did a teacher do that made you automatically gain respect for them? *it is a lot easier to get what you want in a tense situation, especially if you are reasonable, nice, and understanding. Not exactly your question, but a perspective on it. I'm sure they were smoking hot in the mid-eighties, but I'd see a lot of fifty year old women with very obvious plastic surgery, and it was kind of depressing that they just couldn't age with a bit of grace. I promise you that the next time I know you and I are going to be at the same social function that I will wear my very most flattering pencil skirt and deep cut blouse, those ridiculously sexy heels that make me about 9'' taller than you, my very most favorite bombshell lipstick, and I think since I wear my hair up just about every day, I'll set it in long, flowing waves. There’s even a whole field dedicated to this: pulchronomics, or the study of the economics of physical attractiveness. Hasn't shown the slightest intent of being unfaithful and is overall a great person. Gay guys are fucking aggressive. When I'm all wrinkly with grey hair I'm sure I won't be banging 20-year-olds often. And she got to see both sides of the coin. I was very handsome as a teenager and I'm very handsome now, but I had a few years in my 20s where I put on a lot of weight. [–]brassneck 1 point2 points3 points 9 years ago (0 children). Her looks went and she realized that she had been receiving special treatment her whole life, but she knew no other existence so she had always assumed everyone's lives were like hers. Now for the bad news about being beautiful. What videogame have you played the most, and why? (think Princess Diaries Anne Hathaway before/after) I played a lot of sports, and grew quite tall- having a 34'' inseam, so use your imagination there. I'm not a dick or a douche about any of this. I won't like her,' (paraphrasing) but then I got to know you and you're actually pretty cool. I don't ever hit on girls who don't smile at me while I am smiling at them. 1. It's not easy being cute :), [–]incredibad29 1 point2 points3 points 9 years ago (0 children). Was. Suggestion though, if you are beautiful, and smart, smile a lot. I wrote about a few in this post, I was recently listening to Gisele talk to Charlie Rose about being bullied before she was a supermodel. It's true that confidence matters. And then if you are intelligent, you get lifted on the level of some rare genius. Press J to jump to the feed. I'm tempted to pretty much only trust gay guys' assessments of me in any regard anymore. One day at about the age of 16 my mom sat me down and gave me her version of a "makeover" and within weeks I had a steady boyfriend. My daughter is extraordinarily attractive. Otherwise, I mostly come off as pretentious/arrogant to strangers, for whom shyness and introversion appear to be bitchiness. Your cons are so spot-on it's scary. PICS or it didn't happen. [–]leemfg 2 points3 points4 points 9 years ago (1 child), [–]Sinjako 8 points9 points10 points 9 years ago (0 children), [–]Sinjako 6 points7 points8 points 9 years ago (1 child), You are closer to 8 or 9 judging from face and implied body structure, [–]Esqulax 1 point2 points3 points 9 years ago (3 children). And yes, I'm being completely honest with you, my manliness has gayed in their general direction. But surprisingly, he's been dating his middle school sweetheart for about 10 years now. Teachers eat up everything you say. I called her up and we had another talk. If you've got a pretty face, people don't generally care to get to know you beyond that. I have to pretend I feel the way I look, based on how others judge me, so people don't think I'm crazy (FFK Syndrome). That the shitty treatment other people whined about was indeed true, and that just because I didn't experience it firsthand did not mean it wasn't a reality. By using our Services or clicking I agree, you agree to our use of cookies. As well as personal taste. And I'm very conscious of preferential treatment, which has made me lose respect for many people I've met and known in my life, including grad-school faculty for whom I otherwise have immense respect. Free water bottles, free discounts, mistakes get overlooked, etc. It's not confidence when you have reason to suspect that the girl is probably going to give you your number when it's happened 1000 times before. Ever. One example: An average looking, fairly punitive, guy friend was trying to buy a motorcycle from a middle aged woman and got turned away trying to buy the bike for $1600 I went there later that day by myself and offered $1500 and loaded it up in the back of my truck and drove off. It's hard to understand what it's like being on the other side of the coin for some people because that's all they know. [–]DaysSpentDreaming 5 points6 points7 points 9 years ago (2 children), Rotakly agree. more >>, Askreddit is for open-ended discussion questions. They just believe you, and can't think rationally or critically. Appreciate and have fun with it as much as you can. Also particularly sensitive to favoritism and resentful of society for treating people so differently based on their looks. [–]anonmedgrow 1 point2 points3 points 9 years ago (0 children), You forgot "leave a good looking corpse. When I was big, I had no problem striking up conversation with other women and making new friends. To learn more about the pitfalls of being pretty, we turned to Reddit, where there are several threads on this topic. Vincent Chase is someone I try to be more like, but I am too much of an introvert to keep that going. Guy checking in. Being confident in her looks, knows she turns heads but it is silent about it; assertive in a way. [–]bluewabbit 4 points5 points6 points 9 years ago (2 children). It effected her education. It's all incredibly interesting to me, since, of course, I feel like an ugly girl disquised in a hot girl's body. You should try going to sleep earlier. *I feel as if for some reason, the way I look specifically makes people assume things about me and by this I mean the actual shape of my face and body. women are allowed to get angrier about double standards! I knew very early on that I was not pretty. I'm pretty impersonal, with everyone. Barry, your username is possibly the best porno name i have ever heard of. I've always been an anti-social near-aspie. I also hate the testosterone fueled 'tude given off by the seemingly most humble and non-overprotective guys that I somehow inspire. It's okay to be a really tall girl, as long as you're considered hot enough to model. You can also wear a light spritzing of perfume or body spray if you like, but remember to go easy so it doesn’t smell too overwhelming. 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